{"id":89,"date":"2003-02-22T22:03:00","date_gmt":"2003-02-22T16:33:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/swatisani.net\/blog\/2003\/02\/22\/think\/"},"modified":"2009-07-09T17:30:44","modified_gmt":"2009-07-09T12:00:44","slug":"think","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swatisani.net\/blog\/2003\/02\/22\/think\/","title":{"rendered":"Trust or no trust"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.livejournal.com\/talkread.bml?journal=tariquesani&amp;itemid=64768\" mce_href=\"http:\/\/www.livejournal.com\/talkread.bml?journal=tariquesani&amp;itemid=64768\"> This. <\/a><br mce_bogus=\"1\"><\/p>\n<p>Its not only makes business sense to start a relationship basing on the premise of *not*  trusting an individual  &#8211; it also makes a lot of sense in social relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Not trusting to me is an act of self preservation. For me, in any In a transaction or a relationship, I have to know where I stand. I also need to know where to place my stop loss and when to increase it or let it go &#8211; For this I need to start with a -ve balance of trust and let it grow.. if it crosses the line and starts creeping towards the +ive, I know I can invest more.<\/p>\n<p>This has always been my basis of any  transaction and I feel it will be true for most people who value themselves and till date most of the relationship that matter to me have a positive balance.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This. Its not only makes business sense to start a relationship basing on the premise of *not* trusting an individual &#8211; it also makes a lot of sense in social relationships. Not trusting to me is an act of self preservation. 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